My husband's journey with the non hodgkin's lymphoma actually began in September of 1997 when he went to the dermatologist for some tumors on the skin. This is when we first heard the words lymphoma. At the time there was not much information available about the disease. Because of the LLS there has been new medications and lots of information available for blood cancer patients.
We had to wait until December 2nd of 1997 before the final diagnosis was confirmed and after more biopsies were performed. It was a very scary time for my husband and the family. The uncertainty of the diagnosis brought much anxiety from the waiting for the final diagnosis.
We were told back then that they were not sure about the treatment but they would try the standard CHOP. At the time the doctor and we prayed that it worked. And we are blessed that it did and treatment there after has worked to give him 20 years to celebrate life. It is a disease that can be treated, but the wait and watch game is very stressful for the patient and family. I will not say it has been an easy ride, but it has been a learning experience about living life to the fullest everyday and realizing that life is not to be taken for granted.
No mater what tragedy, life struggles, or disappointments that happen, life goes on. We have to individually decide how to get through the tough times. We are not alone, but we are responsible for our own actions. We chose to be happy and embrace life. We chose to support the LLS.
My husband unselfishly gave platelets back in 1995 to help another co-worker. He did not know at the time that someday he would be a blood cancer patient. We never know what each day may bring us. We do not know how we may react and therefore we should never judge someone's shoes we have not walked in. We must remember we are here to help others and not judge them. We hope that they too will be able to overcome their difficult situations and enjoy the gift of life also.
The moments of silence when listening to someone in pain whether it is physical or emotional can help to validate their feelings. Sometimes we do not know what to do other than to hold their hand and ask how can we help you to get through this difficult time. This allows the the person to let their needs be heard and lets others know how they can help them achieve their goals.
God Bless all cancer patients and victims of Hurricane Harvey and Irma !
Please donate to the LLS. Your donation is a gift of life and love!
Life is beautiful !
Elizabeth:)
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